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3 years and counting... [Nov. 19th, 2009|01:17 pm]
A friend posted about her recent credit/financial issues, and how she was working to get herself back on track. I wanted to encourage her with my own story, and that's when I realized... over 3 years... it's been over 3 years since my wife had our own little financial meltdown, and I stepped in to put the pieces back together. Where are we today? We still pay our credit card off at the end of the month, every month. My 401k is recovering nicely from the financial crash the stock market took, and continues to grow.

We got a new car, that we put 50% down on, and it will be paid off in 8 payments. We went to Disney World, and on a cruise. We refinanced our mortgage and saved a bunch of money. Our savings has been up and down, and it's down at the moment, but things have calmed down, and we're back on an upswing now. My mind doesn't really worry about looming financial crisis. I sometimes have to pull reserve funds to pay off the stuff at the end of the month, but it's always there, and it's never had to really be carried more than a week. I would like to save more, but for now, just the fact that I've been off the credit teat for 3 years... I'm pretty proud of us, and me. I hope to continue that trend for the foreseeable future. It can be done, and you don't have to give up everything.

If you have debt? get rid of it. All that interest you are paying to others is money that you can't use for yourself. Debt adds stress. Of course there are times when you should consider credit, but it should be the extreme exception, not the rule. Live within your means, pay things down, and suddenly, you don't NEED a credit card to get you through the month, or tide you over till that next paycheck. Get off the credit cards, and your life will be the better for it. Stop living on borrowed money, because you end up paying back far more than you gain from that immediate gratification.
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Something at least... [Oct. 22nd, 2009|01:01 pm]
Haven't had much of substance in here for a while... it's been tough to carve out the time, and decide what to write about...

so.. at least in the interests of proving I'm still alive and have an active account....

37 or so questions... )
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Dipping my toes into the political waters. [Oct. 8th, 2009|03:45 pm]
Hey folks.. yes.. it's been a while... life comes at you fast...

So.. at nearly 40 years of age, I finally found something to take a stand against. For those who don't know, I volunteer semi-regularly at Perkins Observatory. It's home to one of, if not the largest telescope in the state, and probably in a couple state area. It hosts hundreds of programs every year for the public to enlighten, educate, and inspire thousands of children and adults to be more aware of what's "up there". It has battled long and hard to stay open, staving off funding issues, the eternal creep of light pollution, and a general loss of funding to education sites. It hangs on with the help of a dedicate cadre of volunteers, the heartfelt dedication of Tom Burns, the director up there, and the support of the town/city of Delaware, OH.

Perkins is surrounded on all sides by a golf course.. a course that has been there since 1922. The golf course was recently purchased by a developer, who essentially seeks to turn the golf course into big box stores, office spaces and single and multi-dwelling homes. In short, the development would destroy the ability of Perkins Observatory to exist as a functioning observatory and research facility, and it would become little more than a static display and museum. The increased light pollution from homes butting up against the Observatory property would render any star gazing all but useless. So, for really the first time in my life, I decided to go to a city hall meeting, and make my voice heard. The place was packed with Columbus Astronomical Society members, home owners around the golf course, Ohio Wesleyan University students, and Faculty from the U and of course, Tom.

The city planning commission was genuinely surprised at the number and variety of people there. The Developer's Lawyer, and a team of architects, planner, and a property management company came in, and spun their tale of a great little compartment community, tucked into a scenic portion of Delaware, OH. They talked better road access, and more taxes, and how it would be making a better tomorrow today. They treated Perkins like a lawn ornament. I had a hard time restraining myself to shaking my head sadly at their claims.

Fortunately, the commission doesn't appear to be buying it, and one by one, The CAS people, one of whom was a volunteer there for over 15 years, and estimates some 25,000 people have looked through just his personal telescope, The Astrophysics department head, and Tom all eloquently pointed out just how woefully under prepared and uninformed the developers were about the nature of what Perkins is, what it does, and what their proposals would do to the facility. I had a chance to speak, and I did my best to explain I was a life long local resident, and that my father, an educator himself, took me there to learn about the stars, and how I in turn now take my daughters there to learn. I told them that Perkins was unique and precious and it was simply irreplaceable as a historic site, an education and research facility, and an attraction to the area. If the street lights go in? The stars are extinguished, and there is no moving or substituting or replacing them, or Perkins. I had a tough time keeping my voice from cracking while I expressed this, and I was pretty keyed up by the time I was done, feeling like I had just gone in for the fight of my life. If that is anything at all what going before congress is like... I have nothing but admiration for the people who choose to speak up on issues they care about. It was terrifying, but, I felt it was something I had to do. Since this was merely round one, I expect that I will have several more trips to make before we can see this development defeated.

Giving a damn about something in your town is difficult indeed, but doing nothing, that's shameful. I'm glad I finally got off the bench, and into the game.
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A bit more D*con fun [Sep. 11th, 2009|12:08 pm]
Felicia's Comments about our Guild Avatar group
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D*con images [Sep. 10th, 2009|11:33 am]
You can't really make it out that it's me, but that is my turn in the cage with Arc Attack...

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Teasers.... [Sep. 9th, 2009|12:30 pm]
My basic steampunk costume from the Dragon*con 2009 parade
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Dragon*Con [Sep. 8th, 2009|02:58 pm]
Just wanted to say it was amazing. Just found out that at least one picture of me with my Guild costume of Vork is on Cnn.Com with Felicia Day. *grin*

Costume win!

I was also in what amounts to a giant Faraday cage, and Arc Attack shot musical lightning at me with a pair of 8 foot tall Tesla coils. 8)
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Back from Disney and all that.. [Aug. 24th, 2009|01:03 pm]
just going over the bills... owwwwwww. Disney was covered, but we had a lot of unavoidable expenses that just had to be dealt with.... ah well.. I may not be getting ahead.. but at least I'm not falling behind... but I think the light at the end of the tunnel is not the oncoming train, so, I'll take it as a good thing.

Dragon*Con might be interesting, expensewise, but I'll manage.
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just for the heck of it.... [Aug. 13th, 2009|10:41 am]
I'm writing this as we sail through the air at about 30,000 feet. 8) Technology is fun! We'll land in orlando in about 40 minutes...
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Karma? Did I pee in your corn flakes or something? [Aug. 11th, 2009|01:56 pm]
Power supply on my PC just died... got it replaced.. not sure of the health of the video card.. seeing how stable it stays...
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Yes, I know.. I'm insane [Aug. 11th, 2009|09:38 am]
For those going to dragon*con, it appears I've found my costume. I'm going to be Vork from The Guild.

I have been in contact with the costume designer, so I have the details on what I need to make it. We've lined up a Codex, and a Clara, but we still need a Zaboo, Tinkerballa, and Bladezz. I've also been in touch with the prop maker who did their weapons, and once he has approval from the producer, We should get detailed weapon construction info. It'll be very, very tight to get things done, but here's hoping!

Sleep is optional ,right?


Also...

Closing on the refinance in about 20 minutes.

Was in a car accident last night. Parking lot, fender bender, no one hurt, car is already at the body shop. Not what I wanted to have to do right before going to Disney. (sigh)

anyway onward and upward.
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Long time, no talk... [Aug. 7th, 2009|10:14 am]
So.. the basics....

We are, in theory, closing on a home mortgage refinance on Saturday. The net result is about 200 dollars a month lower total outgo for the mortgage, and we condense from a first and second mortgage to a first mortgage. Down side, less than 20% equity, so it had to be FHA, which means mortgage insurance. However, we estimate in about 5 years or less, we'll have the 20% equity again, and can drop the PMI, saving us an additional 85 dollars a month on the mortgage. It's a fixed rate, and it's not really likely to ever be a rate this low again, so we're going for it. In the end, it'll make our housing expense a lot smaller. The girls, starting at the beginning of this school year, are going to stop going to the babysitter. This saves us a huge chunk of cash each month. With the lower mortgage, and the reduced childcare, we can really start saving money. First thing on my list is the 2-3 month operating expenses you're supposed to have in the bank. After that? Home improvements, saving for replacement cars, and/or other vacations. Everything we can set aside now, we will.

Speaking of vacations, the long awaited time is nearly upon us. We're off to Disney for the land and sea park/cruise combo vacation we've been planning for oh, the last 3 years. *fingers crossed for good weather*. Thus far, things are on track, and everyone is looking forward to it.

Later this month, Camping weekend, and then, over labor day weekend, Dragon*Con! (during my birthday no less!). I fully intend to take as much advantage of it being my birthday that Saturday as I can. I'll even have a co-celebrant, who's also having a birthday that same day. A new person in our steampunk group also shares my birthday. If she were able to go down there? We'd be the three birthday musketeers. 8)

So, all in all, busy, as usual, many obligations to fulfill, but some long awaited rewards.
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What I did last night. 8) [Aug. 1st, 2009|01:00 pm]
Carpe Noctum!



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Two today [Jul. 1st, 2009|05:10 pm]
Karl Malden, and

Mollie Sugden - Mrs. Slocombe from "Are You Being Served?" has died. I'll miss her humor and wigs! http://bit.ly/11ywxv
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Quick updates [Jun. 24th, 2009|11:27 am]
I burned two vacation days, and got what amounted to a 4 day weekend. Droppped the kids off on Saturday for part one of Camp Grandma. Won't see them again till Friday after work. Sunday, kicked back, and recovered some from the midnight viewing of the Ghostbusters movie with a good chunk of barfleet. Much fun was had by all.

Monday, took the day to stroll around Easton with Cathy, and window shop and real shop. Got some new shoes as my old ones were literally falling apart. Also did TV night at Mandy and Natalie's place, and it looks like it's a win for the summer location. Just have to supply them with shows for people to watch.



Tuesday, went with Lisa so she could see/go to/experience Cedar Point for the very first time.

Perfect weather, and the longest wait we had was 30 minutes, most were walk ons. We dealt with several maintenance breakdowns though.


So, she now adds to her coaster belt:

Corkscrew
Gemini
Iron Dragon
Mantis
Raptor
Magnum
Millenium Force
whatever that mine ride was
Disaster Transport
and she got to do the bumper cars. And we got soaked on Thunder Canyon.

Like me, she opted to take a pass on TTD. She wanted to ride Maverick but it was closed for maintenance when we made our way back there. Mean Streak upsets my stomach too much, and by the end of the day, neither of us were really ready to take that on. Of note, as I was waiting in line for Millenium force, I realized I couldn't remember anything other than going over the first hill from my first ride, with Linda and Catherine. This time, I remembered the ride better, and I also nearly passed out from the G's at the bottom of the first hill.. The whole tunnel vision, and dancing lights in front of the eyes. Just about the point I was going to lose conciousness though, the pressure lessened and I was fine for the rest of the ride. I'm thinking that may have been my last trip on that coaster.

Couldn't have asked for better weather though, and we pretty much had the pick of ride orders, though, as I mentioned, several were delayed due to maintenance. Over the course of the day, Raptor, Iron Dragon, Maverick, and Disaster transport all forced us to come back later, due to them being checked out. Otherwise, bang up day.

Back to work for now!
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So, this weekend is father's day... [Jun. 19th, 2009|10:48 am]
[mood |introspective]

This is a holiday I both look forward to, and now have a considerable amount of melancholy for. I am now, literally, the oldest surviving male in my direct line. I have two children, and thus am qualified for entrance into the whole father's day thing. I have no father to call, or grandfather to receive new wisdom from. I am, for all intents and purposes, Making my own way. (This is not to say I don't have uncles that are blood or marriage relations, but, it's not quite the same).

I miss my father. It's been several years since his passing, and I no longer completely break down when I think about him. Time has sufficiently dulled that wound. It still sneaks up on me though. I recently saw the movie Fanboys, about a group of friends who quest to sneak a peek at the Star Wars Episode I pre-release print, because the movie would not be released until after one of them would have died from cancer. My father loved science fiction, and in particular, he loved the original trilogy. He had wanted to see the first movie, but was stricken with leukemia and passed away before the premiere. So, that movie hit me unexpectedly, and very hard. He was taken away from us far too soon, and suddenly.

I do what I can now, as a father. My daughters look forward to seeing me when I get home, and my youngest sends me off to work with a kiss on my sometimes stubbly cheek every morning. We go places together, though I probably could do that more often, and we see things together, and I occasionally perform the role of taxi to take them to see their friends. My friends tell me how much they are impressed with my girls, and I take no small amount of pride in the academic achievements they both have achieved. I am far from the perfect father, though I never quit trying, and as they get older, I am understanding more and more how fleeting the time of a parent and their child is. Rachael will be 12 this year.... 6 years until I become the parent of an adult child. It all goes by far too quickly.

This year, they will be visiting their grandparents for 'Camp Grandma' during the father's day holiday. Their remaining grandfather will have the benefit of breakfast in bed, or whatever else it is they have planned. It hit me a lot harder than I thought it would, that they would not be here, with me, on what most fathers consider a holiday filled with bad ties, and awkward gifts. I never thought I'd find myself missing a bad paisley tie, or somewhat overdone pancakes, but I will. Perhaps if I had a father, or grandfather to still go see, I would invest my time instead there, giving them a bit of what I was missing myself, but there is no one left to give that appreciation to. I will not wallow in self pity, and I chide myself even now as I write this to buck up and deal with what life has dealt me like an adult.

It doesn't change the fact that I miss my own father, and I will not have my children with my on Father's day, though I know they will be off on a grand adventure, and I wouldn't want to deprive them of that for all the oddly shaped pancakes in the world. I guess that is what being a good father is.. putting aside what you want, so that those who go after you will not go wanting.
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Birthdays, weddings, and funerals... [Jun. 3rd, 2009|12:35 pm]
As you age, the events you tend to attend change... I am finding I am less in the birthday and wedding, and more in the wedding and funeral stage. Another of my friends has passed away. A long time friend, who's wife was battling Chrohn's disease, and a plethora of other chronic conditions brought on by it, Passed away Monday night, so I will be driving to Fostoria to attend the funeral. It was an unexpected death, and frankly, from what her husband told me, it may well have been negligence on the side of the hospital that led to her death. I can say with some certainty now, that you ought to avoid Riverside hospital if you can....
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Some detail on the Dalek costume [May. 27th, 2009|12:36 pm]
After seeing the post by[info]mothernatureiam , my wife and I decided to take a stab at making a Dalek costume to compliment the TARDIS costume a friend of ours was making for MARCON. I blithely ignored the fact that her post starts with "For 3 months..." thinking it was a costume that could be banged out in a week or two. Technically, it took us just under two weeks to make this, but it was some long hours indeed. My wife started by cutting up enough 3 Inch styrofoam balls to be our dots. Then she covered the halves with two coats of modge podge to smooth out the surface some. Next, was two coats of silver craft paint.

The next big hurdle was designing the lower skirt. We didn't want to use just two panels on the front, but instead wanted something that closely resembled the 6 panel front end of the Daleks on the show. The problem was, those panels would not have a single right angle in them, making them virtually impossible to cut correctly on the first go. We even downloaded actual Dalek plans, but due to us wanting to have our daughters be standing up inside the Dalek, we couldn't use the 'official' plans, because that would make the skirt too short for us to work with, among other issues. What I ended up doing was taking some 1/4" graph paper and then drawing out the shape of the top and bottom of the skirt and the 'cap' pieces that the vertical pieces would connect to, and basically doing some geometry to figure out angles and lengths. My wife did most of that from the drawing, and then we confirmed our math when we drew out the actual full sized pieces. For the record, if you're going to cut a lot of foam core board, get one of the Xacto foam board cutting tools. That and a good, long straight edge were invaluable in the drawing and cutting process, as well as having a good set of rulers. Once the top and bottom of the skirt were drawn, my wife re-did the math, verified the shapes of the 6 front panels and cut them out. Once the base plate of the skirt was cut, we just cut out the smaller top panel of the skirt from the bottom panel piece, this giving us a start for where the girls could put their feet through the bottom of the skirt. I also drew an octagon in the top of the top skirt piece, as that was going to be the shape of the shoulder section. We could not do circular foam board, so we decided an octagon was close enough. With all the main skirt panel pieces cut, we also cut a second copy of the top skirt panel piece, so we could better dissassemble the dalek for transport. .
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My daughters had an absolute blast in the costume. We got second place overall for Hall costumes, losing out to a master costumer with a Blink Angel outfit. They wandered around for most of the day, with a speaker toy that shouted various Dalek lines, and many people thought the costume was a voice controlled robot or remote controlled toy untill my girls spoke up from inside. Well worth the effort! The only shame is that we'll probably only get another year, maybe two out of it, because they are growing so fast.

Some other tidbits.. I put in several pieces of 1/4" squared dowel rod on the inside of the skirt, on top of the base plate, to give some extra support to the base. There were 7 furniture casters on the bottom of the foam board base, and my wife sewed a 3" fabric skirt around the base, to hide the casters. We used velcro to attach the casters to the base, but the stresses from moving around caused the casters to come loose, partiuclarly when turning quickly. We figure that if we glued the casters to a small square of foam board, and velcroed the foam board to the base skirt, we'll do better. (Why did we have to velcro the casters on? because if the skirt was any taller, it would not have fit into the back of our station wagon, making transport impossible)

Overall? A challenging project, but a lot of fun, and well worth the reaction we got from everyone. Not bad for Foam core board, styrofoam, hot glue, and some dowels and paint. 8)
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Relatively brief recap. [May. 25th, 2009|11:14 am]
Marcon done.

Glad people had a great time.

I had many personal issues to deal with, among them, too many obligations and not enough me to go around. This was a challenging marcon for me, and I can say it was both one of the best, and one of the worst Marcon's I've attended.

Next year, I will not be working, designing, participating or otherwise being involved with the Maximillian's table. I will not be working for the convention. I wasn't really able to fulfill my work obligation to them this year and I feel bad about that. I was late for my shift at the Barfleet party. I did not particularly enjoy my time at the fleet parties due to outside stresses. Even so, I managed to spot and get ejected someone on our ban list who tried to sneak in. Even when I'm out of it, I'm still looking after the clubs I'm in. I feel no ill will toward any of the groups. I simply need to take a convention or two off to attend, and not work and be stressed out about the whole thing. It's a natural thing, apparently, among people who want to help and participate. I am no exception to this.

This year, the Max's table won best hall display. So, I am going out on a high note. We beat out a prop/costume making group who had a life sized stargate there, and we beat out the national Klingon fan group organization, by a razor thin margin. We really gave it our all, and we won. I am proud of the work put into the display, especially, since I more or less had to set it up myself.

Costume engineering issues from other members of the masquerade entry prevented us from participating in the masquerade this year. There is talk of making a go of it next year. This year's masquerade was a let down except for the woman in the 20 foot long T-Rex costume which was phenomenal.

The Dalek costume I designed and Cathy and I built was an overwhelming success. I'm guessing literally hundreds, if not a thousand or so photos were taken of the costume. the girls argued about who got to be in the costume. People thought it was a voice activated robot or otherwise remote controlled until the girls spoke up from inside. The Dalek almost won best overall hall costume, but we got beaten out by a fine costumer woman who makes amazing outfits every year, and she was the Blink Angel. Sheer popularity of the Dr. Who episode Blink pretty much guaranteed a win for her, but even so, She did a bang up job on the costume. So, I don't feel bad with 2nd place among all the hall costumes for what amounts to my first attempt at such a major costume.. (and Cathy and I built the whole thing in about 2 weeks of long nights)

The Interocetor that Lisa and I and Cathy built was also an unparalleled success. Thanks to Lisa for suggesting the insane idea. We got positive comments from people who went to the original opening of the Movie "This Island Earth" back in the 50's, fans of the MST3K movie, and people of all ages who stopped to gawk and marvel and get their picture taken and talk to us about the Max. One case of 'corporate espionage' as they were taking up close photos to try to replicate our project. I was amused.

My ribbons were again highly sought after. If I had not been so elusive and obligated to things, I could have had more fun with that. I am already planning a major ribbon event to amuse myself for next year.


Overall, the convention was pretty good. I can't say I had a super time throughout it all, and I am not trying to take anything away from all the people who had a fabulous time. I am genuinely happy for them, and I hope to be among them next year. For me, I survived Marcon 44, and I will be finishing my prep for the Max's annual picnic in 2 weeks, and then a brief respite, and I will commence my planning in earnest for Dragon*Con which I will be attending, and not working through. After that, the election cycle for the Max begins, and I will be able to start looking forward to my retirement from the leadership group of the Max after 4 years. It's been thus far, an interesting ride.

Images and such to come later. I need to download and edit them, and I need to put together a post for the crafty tardis community about the Dalek. I am looking forward to the feedback from that, too.
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Not dead, really. [May. 20th, 2009|11:48 am]
So.. got through the ordination of my brother in law over the weekend.

Am franticly in the middle of prep for Marcon.

Need to finish a kid's costume that is insanely complex for as simple as it appears.

Need to repair my interocetor for the Max's hall display.

Need to gather up all the Max's hall display stuff and the table display stuff.

Need to work with people on the marcon masquerade entry/skit

Need to repair/collect/test my marcon costumes (mostly dragon*con rehash)

Need to pick up the pieces of several things.

Need to get house ready for guest to stay Thurs Night.

Need to stage it all to be transported...

Need probably an extra day that I'm not going to get.

Need to reassess how it all will go down.

Need to keep it together through the weekend.

Need to find a little bit of happy.
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